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If you would ever feel (or are being told) you are too much…this is for you! (also for the men)

“You are not too much. You have never been too much. You will never be too much.
The very idea is preposterous. Because you were born to be you. All of you.
Not a tiny acceptable sliver. Not a watered down version with colors dulled
and edges softened.
No. You were meant to be every last pulsing-bleeding-loving-crying-feeling bit.

And if someone tells you that you are too much for them, the only truth you
need to remember is this: It is highly likely that they are not now, and never could
have been, near enough for you.

Because you, my girl, are the sun and the moon and the stars.
You are the force that pulls the tides.

You are the unrestrained howl under a wide-open moon.
You are the essence of what it is to dance into ecstasy. You are the heat and the sex
and the sweat and the burn and soft and the grace and the grit and the ocean of tears.

You are all of everything.
You are the mother of us all and the daughter of the Universe.
You walk through shadows and light.
You burn down and rise up and hold captive the pulse of the world.
You make the gods tremble.

And that, my dear, is bound to make some people crazy uncomfortable. It will make
them pull back and push away. Because the way you dance with your shadows and
your steadfast commitment to your light will push them into spaces that are fascinating
and compelling and utterly terrifying.
Your very being asks them to step into places they may not be near ready to visit,
let alone stay.
Because like the depths of the ocean that calls you home, you will never be easy.

But darling, you were not brought here for easy. You are here for so much more.
Because you are a boundary-pusher.
You’re a truth-seeker.
You’re temptation and seduction and heat.
You’re a mirror and a sorcerer, and inside you swirls the power of the ancients.

So no, you are not easy.
But in the space of that truth, please also know this. Do not get this confused with
the notion that you do not deserve the deepest ease.
Don’t, for a minute, let them convince you that you will not know the grace of a lover
does not require that you constantly translate yourself or diminish yourself or quiet
your storm or tone down your extravagant love.

Because that, my girl, is bullshit.
Because out there somewhere there is a love who will never dream of calling you too much.
Who speaks, like you, in poetry and candlewax and stardust. Who runs outside on stormy
nights to howl at the moon. Who collects bones and sings incantation and talks to the ancestors.

And that lover, when you find him or her, will see you and know you —
just as you are and just as you should be.
And they will say: Yes. Yes, you. I will go there with you. I have been waiting for this.
And so while you are waiting, I want you to do this. For me, and for every last too much
girl out there.

You take all that too much and you channel it. You gather every last ember of your too much
broken heart and you light that flame. And in doing so you will call forth the others and
sing the song that brings us home.

And then you — in your infinite, perfect too-muchness — unleash it all on the world.
And you go and love too much and you cry too much and you swear too much.
Fall in love too fast and get sad too often and laugh too loudly and demand with clarity
exact terms of your own desired existence.
Don’t you dare consider doing anything but that.
Because we need you. Every one of us, man or woman, who has been called too much.
You are our reminder, in the most desperate of moment, that we are exactly as we should be.
Every last too-much bit.’

-Jeanette LeBlanc-